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| My wife wants a divorce but she stiil wants me to live in the house. I'm confused? | | Published by: jane 2010-03-15 |
| | She still wants to sleep together in the same bed. Do you think we will ever get back together.
Yeah I'm sure she would want to get back together, she probably feels safer with you by her side. I've been with my husband for six months currently separated but it's hard not to have him by my side, but it was my choice to. Anyways back to your question. Has she told you why she wants a divorce?
she wants a good open window to have sex with other guys, no guilty conscious.
Trust me, both of my brother's are going through divorces with their wives (been with em for about 6-8 years married). She's just trying to keep you around to get over the blues while she prepares herself for battle. Don't trust the *****, she will back-stab you faster than a crack-head!
I'm not saying this to be a jerk. I'm saying this to warn you. Get out of the house, go to a friends, your mom's, a relatives, a hotel, anything! Just get away until the two of you can sort this out.
Trust me, if you stay around, she will get you feeling all weird like you are now and then when you are at your weakest she will be emboldened by it and "suddenly" attack you at your lowest.
Best of luck my friend!
dude.. that sucks. I'm in a similar situation. She wants to say you're separated to sleep with other guys probably. If you're smart, you should probably leave now and see if she chases you. I wasn't able to do that and am still going through it almost 9 months later. So from my experience, if you're strong enough to just tell her that wont work for you and pick up and go, you may be able to save it. If you wait and let yourself get walked on, it will just get worse and worse.
loll what the f.
iiii think that she might want you, but at the same time, being divorced she can go be w another person && you cant really say no because ur "divorced". Whichhh means she wants her cake and wants to eat the damn thing too. Dont stay in the house. && knock some sense into her what the hell is sleeping w together & being divorced?!!!
** not literally knock. lol :]
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go see a therapist...but i agree with the first person
idk man that sounds wierd. She wants to divorce you but wants to sleep with you thats really weird. Maybe shes testing you or sumthin idk.
She needs therapy. She wants a divorce but wants to continue sleeping together? She is confused suggest therapy or move on.
Your wife is really confusing. She just does not want to be your wife she just wants to live with you and sleep with you and as many other men as she can! lmao...good luck with her!
Sounds like she wants your money or something she want you when she need you ,Tell her to get a life!
Don't stick around and find out.
This is what is called a head game. Perhaps she wants to date around but wants to monitor you and keep you from emotionally detaching from her. She may also want to be able to continue to rely on you (read take from you) for emotional support, financial contribution and/or house chores, while having her sexual autonomy. You need to get away from that. She sounds like a very selfish and manipulative woman. That cannot be emotionally healthy for you in any way shape or form.
It's possible you could get back together. She may want to sleep in the same bed or house to reduce the trauma of all the change. I think she also wants you to know she doesn't want you to be out of her life and vice versa if you do divorce. That's a good sign that friendship and trust is still in the relationship--which is a good foundation to the possibility of getting back together. I wonder if you could ask her at a very relaxed time what it means to her, your being in the same place despite a divorce. Just listen and don't try to solve everything at once. Listening is a very powerful tool.
Sounds like she wants the best of both worlds. You close by so she wont get lonely, but the opportunity to leave if she finds someone else. If you have kids, try therapy and try to make this work. If not, move on!
Good Luck
You know what you did don't you. She's slowly letting you go, but still enjoying her sex and security. When she brings in the another guy and he does it better you'll be in the snow. What did you do that made her so angry she can't deal with you.
if she wants a divorce you shouldn't sleep in the same bed. thats not fair to you at all. you should talk to her about it all. thats the best way to get answers.
I have been married for a year. My husband is my best friend. We never had one fight till we got married. Now we fight everyday! I have often considered what you are talking about. For me its like we had it so good before we got married maybe we could just get back to that if we got a divorce and still lived together. Another reason is I don't wanna lose him. I love having him around I just can't get along with him now. There's so much stress that changes things once you get married. And I believe that you and your wife will get back together my guess is she doesn't want to lose you either. And maybe she thinks that things were better before y'all got married. Just think about it. My best advice is talk to her not fight but talk just listen be understanding. don't criticize that helps nothing.
Hmmm. Seems like she is not sure about wanting a divorce after all...
She is angry and probably a little pissed off. Maybe feeling a little animosity but she doesn't really want to end the marriage. Her threat of divorce is more of a cry for help from you to meet her half way on whatever the issues are at the present time. The two of you need to sit down and have a heart to heart discussion where both of you get a chance to voice your feelings and you both have the opportunity to feel what the other feels. It is a start. That way the two of you can find a compromise.
I'm sorry, that seems absolutely ridiculous to me. She needs to sort things out because that is *not* normal.
She doesnt want to be that close to you but doesnt want to lose you.
She may not really want a divorce. She maybe saying that because she's frustrated with something you are doing or some situation you two are in. She maybe trying to scare you to get you to change.
She just wants to use you for resources. Just find a younger hotter girl to sleep with.
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