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Now I am upset and it was my bday today. He bought me a ring last yr and totally forgot abt it this year and asked me if I wanted a ring he had seen online similar to the one he bought for my bday last yr. I played along and did not remind him.
I want to ask you a simple question.
Which of the two scenarios would u prefer.
He gets you a gift and forgets about it (which happened in my case)
OR
He gets you a gift and remembers the gift always.
My friend says he's wrong and it shows he places less importance on the gifts he gives me.
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My mum says I am crazy and that I should be glad he has a big heart and absent mindedness and he's not petty enough to remember everything he gives me and keep reminding me about them.
I too thought my mum is right until my friend told me about the less important thing.
Now I am hurt and confused and I know I am very fickle minded.
Please tell me what you women think about this.
Seriously I want to know what you would prefer and why. Please be very practical.
Thanks
Why did you bother 'playing along', if he doesn't remember, then remind him, there is no need to turn it in to a game of emotions. Get over it, you are being very silly and need to remember it is important that he loves you, not what gift he gets you.
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Your two options are stupid, just get over it, there is no issue, simple as that. Be thankful he remembered your birthday and loves you.
Of course we would all prefer that our men get us gifts, remember every important occasion and thing they've done for us, and do everything right on top of that. But it's unfair to ask a question like that. No guy is going to do everything right all the time.
He might show his love in different ways than you do. It doesn't mean he feels that love any less. Things that we ladies think are important are often different than what our guys think are important. If he doesn't put as much importance on gifts, that doesn't mean he doesn't put as much importance on *you*. Don't judge his heart by his measure of memory. Sit and think back of all the things he has done or said to let you know he loves you, and realize how much he does love you. j_HeaNa** <M0dEL MAfiA;tEAM Mj>'s MySpace Profile - Online Dating ::
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I think if this is your biggest problem in life you need to look around the world a little....
Your mom is right and I would prefer scenario A. The more jewelry the better.
He has more important things to worry about than your stupid birthday present.
Good heavens, I can't remember what I ate yesterday and you're worried about what you got for a gift a year ago?
Guess I'm lucky. My husband has managed to give me exactly what I wanted over the years and each one has gotten bigger! I love to go camping in style, so the RV we bought 2 weeks before my birthday last January is the best! This thing has 3 slide outs, 2 bedrooms and lots of room. It's got a great air conditioner for those hot August nights down at the beach.
Remember, you are married to your husband, not your friend. I'm not saying you should have played along with your husband about the ring. I would have something like "well, dear, I really do like the one I got last year, remember?" Lots of guys just don't know what to buy so they just go for jewelry. It doesn't hurt to let him know what you really would like to have.
Have more communication with your husband and less with your friend. Men do not have a clue when something is not right and you aren't happy. It's just another way that God made us different.
To answer your question: it doesn't matter. The point is, he is trying. Keep judging him and he'll go please someone else.
I have no intention of ridiculing your question....but I don't see what OCD has to do with all of this. anyway.. your mother is right..I wouldn't care if my husband even forgot to get me anything for my birthday. It's all his other behaviour through the years , that's most important to me. Your friend sounds like a silly immature child, that needs to grow up, and realise there are other things far more important in this life and in your marriage. If you have a good, honest, healthy relationship with your husband ..what more could you ask for.
Sure you are going to feel hurt. But do you remember what you ate for dinner three nights ago? Me neither.
Trust me, just be glad he gets you stuff.
I wish I could afford a decent ring for my girlfriend, but here I am stuck with writing her free poems, and cooking her free meals, and spending some free time together, but it's never enough. I wish I could give more.
You should be happy at the gesture, not at the man's inability to memorize something from a year ago.
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My hubby forgot what he gave me on my bday last yr. Silly question but drove me crazy plz answer. ?