I have a Friend that i really like , she's H-O-T, like really gorgeous !! long dark hair, amazing body and she's got a great outgoing personality that everybody loves her for..now don't get me wrong the last thing i would even think about is envying her or hate her for that, I love her so much she's my best friend and i wish her well, but when we're together i'm always in 2nd place, friends and non-friends look at her first then me and sometimes they never look my way, when they wanna greet us , it's her first and I don't like that, i mean is it me? , is it my personality that should be changed?, should i stop being her friend because she makes me feel that way..just now when we were coming home..walking, there were two guys on her side following her , and one on my side following her too, and i had to move away so he can get closer to her ..and in that picture i am invisible..I am beautiful,( I feel good about myself most of the time) i'm a little shy .. but i have a great smile and my hair never looks the same , my cloths are fashionable and i'm kind of a chubby but i look good anyway!
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so after that please tell me what to do, i always come in 2nd place no matter what when we're together, and this never happens when i'm around somebody else ..of my other Friends.Remember no hard feelings for my "hot" Friend or any of the like.
I hope you can help me
There is always gonna be a friend that takes up the spot light I mean I have alot of friends like that and worst about it is they are actually models!! but you can't let that get to you and love yourself for who you are because at the ending of the day she is still your homegirl and if you feel this way you should tell her and see what she says I mean maybe as a friend she can hook you up in style or something your doing wrong when you dress or your make up you know what I mean?..remember your BEAUTIFUL and you can always ot beat her and wear something more outstanding then her someday and see what happens.... **Transformations from skinny to mass pics*** (post them everybody ::
Thanks, na I still have really low self confidence. Not sure how to fix that one. That my freind is tremendous progress, ur a friggin tank bro.
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haha i have the same situation only its with my sister. Every1 loves her, when we go shopping she always get the attention and i always feel self concious when im around her. I tell her how i feel and she says she doesnt like the attention and tries to make me feel better. But what makes me feel better is that when we go to the shops people are only looking at her because of her body, they dont know what her personality is like, and old men look at her and she hates that... that always makes me laugh haha. But remember if u love who you are, who cares if those pplz are too ignorant to look at u... there is not much u can really do but try and be happy with urself, who cares about her lol anways good luck:)
the dogs chase the tail have nothing on you your shy side is attractive to her and if your watching a movie together if you look shy sitting next to her she will think it's hot
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unfortunately, there is a little jealousy/envy in this picture. we girls feel this all time...we may not want to but we do. Your friend makes you feel smaller than she...but really its YOU that is the problem here. When people are really confident about themselves, it shows. Im not talking about clothes or hair or any material thing....when u really have confidence in yourself and you really feel good about how you look, you GLOW. You dont think of yourself as highly as you do your friend ..why is that? You think just because she gets alot of attention then she's hotter?that she looks better than you? You are not her. You think if you looked like she did then people would "like you"? Thats not necessarily true. Sweetheart, she's getting attention that she doesnt need and you shouldnt envy her looks. People who get THAT MUCH attention end up getting into something they dont have no business getting into. Attention can be very dangerous and i think you should be careful what you wish for. Is this person really your BFF? I think you should work on being happy with you and who u r. But if you just cant stand it or take it anymore, maybe you shouldnt be her friend if being her friend makes you feel small. This is a good life lesson for all young ladies. Good luck.
hey! dont worry, hon
she is just outgoing.
people who give off the aura of self confidence 'seem' more attractive since they lead other people to believe that they are. (by showing that they know they look good)
guys love outgoing girls. I dont know why but they do :D
i am sure you are quite beautiful. but the thing is...when one of her admirers are around, play up to it. act fun, act crazy, act wild, be one of the outgoing kind and i bet you will get more attention than her.
You are quite sweet, after all
hey!
well first off let me say that I dont know much meaning I'm not a therapist or anything...
but coming from another women, and someone who has dealt with this sorta situation, I'm giving you my best advice!!
First off, you are probably wonderful! You are probably very attractive who knows! I feel like you need to worry less about the attention she is getting and work on you! I hope that didn't sound rude..
so ya youre probably a little jealous of her and that's fine! You obviously are a great friend if you love her and dont envy or hate her as you said!
You seem self confident! Use that, find things that you feel comfortable doing that are you! Is it make-up, try to experiment with it, maybe your really funny and get along well with ppl cuz of that, you could even go as far as trying on that top you wanna wear but just dont know if you should...you should!!!
dont ever change who you are to try and please other ppl!! I just got done telling my frend the other day about how you can't go chasing things in the world that dont want to be chased.
Listen all I'm saying is be your self and that should shine they the most!! And who cares if your a lil chubby, honestly I'm not little miss America stick thin....I've got a little meat in the bones, but I still know how to work the magic ona crowd or when I wanna meet someone! Its all persnality and how one carries his/her self!
well anywho, good luck! And if all fails dont get down on ur self...always remember you are you and that's all you can be! If ppl dont like that then move on...life is to short to waste time thinking about things you should have done in the first place!
go out there and work who u are girl!!
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